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In Regard to the "why I don't have sex with my husband" article...   11/10/2003

Your article only left me with 1 question....what the hell are you doing staying married to him? It is obvious you think he is a slob along with many other unfavorable qualities and also obvious you are miserable..so why not leave and be happy? sheesh you must be getting something from staying...so shut up and stay or move on and be happy...life is to short to spend moaning and complaining ...


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Presentation counts--be literate!   11/10/2003

I'd like to offer my opinion on the thing that bothers me most: poor spelling and grammar. There are an awful lot of ads on this site with no capital letters, terrible spelling, and non-existant grammar. One example that really annoys me is all the ads that use "u" instead of "you" and "r" instead of "are". There is even another advice article on this same topic which contains the same ...


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Have you find a partner thru Ebony Sex Hookups?   11/10/2003

Does anybody ever found a sex partner using Ebony Sex Hookups? I agree with the opinions that subscribers are either not real or they are using this site as opportunity to advertise their own paid websites and services.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
SixTips To Help Men Receive More Oral   11/10/2003

This is for the endless number of men who complain that either their partner won't perform oral sex on them or that they don't do it enough. TIP #1 Shave or at least neatly trim your member...it's not pleasant picking hairs from one's tongue and besides hair has tendency to hold odors. TIP #2 Try repositioning during sex...the good old 69 position invariably leaves your partner in an ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
tonysoza 44 M
2  Articles
Double dating   11/9/2003

I am a married guy, working away from home, have , Initially when i married i used to love to good horny time in bed with my wife; but then she would not be so interested. I like oral and she is the straight type. Hence i started soucingsatisfaction elsewhere. Now I Have found a good woman who is elder to me, just one yrs elder. She give me good time and wants me to be with her. she knows I ...


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points for a standard   11/9/2003

when i respond to articles or questions i don't recive points for it. I don't think i've gone over the max in all categories. Is there a way to see what i have done?


0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Advice on threesomes   11/9/2003

If you were to have a threesome how would it go. Let's say it's two women and a man. Are there certain positions you should try to make it more enjoyable. I know that if you've never had a 3some you really don't care what positions you are in, you just want to jump right in. For those experienced with 3somes what do you enjoy doing during all the activity.


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RE: Hot Girls!!!   11/9/2003

Hey MR. Theyre are alot of HOT girls that arent the porn queens! So thanks for the compliments to us "real" hot girls too bad we cant see your ID so we know to shitcan YOUR notes!


0 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Can I spend the rest of my life with this person   11/8/2003

I've known my fiance for 3 and 1/2 years now, and we moved in together last year. Over the past few months I've been questioning whether or not I can marry her or not. For one since we've moved in together I've noticed she's a complete slob and uterly lazy, here I work two jobs clean our place and I come back to it a mess. Two she is my first real passionate intimate relationship, and I ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 60 Votes ,7.17 Score
rm_BiSalemOR 55 M
3  Articles
do or would women like bi guys   11/8/2003

I'm presently only a bi curious guy. It usually only comes to the surface when I'm horny and not always then. I'm straight and have no interest in men romantically. I am not a person that for cheating but so long as the other knows and APPROVES I don't think of it as cheating. I am presently single and not dating and the fantasy part of me would love to have some experiences that an ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 85 Votes ,7.36 Score
Making a woman squirt   11/8/2003

I have always heard that if you can make a woman squirt during her orgasm, it intensifies her orgasm greatly.....this is also somewhat of a turn on! Can anyone advise me how to make this happen?! Thank you in advance!


0 Comments, 37 Views, 125 Votes ,7.51 Score
rm_deuce63 46 M
1  Article
RE: This thing I call my Life.....   11/6/2003

It is excellent advice to go see a therapist... if you work with a good one, you won't be sorry you went! <br> An observation; you are falling for guys who it could never work out with, right? Do you think part of the reason is a fear of a relationship succeeding? <br> I'll explain; say you are involved with somebody for quite some time, and you have a very close ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 33 Votes ,8.01 Score
When emotions get in the way of a casual relationship   11/5/2003

A close male friends girlfriend was overseas for almost a year when we had a few too many drinks one night & ended up havin the best sex I'd had in my entire life. We agreed it was just a one-off thing & wouldnt happen again. Yet it did, many times. We started spending all our free time together like a couple. I felt so guilty about betraying his girlfriend but I knew she was sleeping with ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
Marriage   11/5/2003

Don't get me wrong, marriage is great...the constant sex, no nagging....you get the jist! But for all of you out there thinking about marriage, remember these two things: 1)sex is the most important thing in the relationship - don't let anyone tell you differently. What's the best way to get ovr a fight, sex. What's the best way not tohave a fight, sex. So remember, the more sex you ...


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guru   11/4/2003

He who dares wins. A faint heart never won a fair lady. BUT ONLY A FOOL PISSES IN THE WIND.


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Paying for sex, is it wrong?   11/4/2003

Having reached the age of 42 without having sex (BOY HAVE I LEFT IT LATE!!!) and being to shy and tongue tied to be successful at dating, I descided to try a 'massage' parlour for sex. I searched the NET for a suitable local establishment and found reviews of the girls and premises. I have now visited them a few times and have no qualms about continuing to use their services, in fact I ...


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rm_rookies03 39 C
2  Articles
messy? answer   11/4/2003

I wouldn't say I am an expert on anal sex, but we have tried it a couple of times, so I do know the answers to your questions. Anatomically, when your penis enters the chute, you are in the rectum. The rectum is normally empty and stays (relatively) clean. Good hygene is helpful. An enema can clean up the rest, and some people find them erotic. Note, that you need to use lots of lube ...


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Re: Deployed NUTS?   11/3/2003

Hopefully you have another bank account or all of your hard earned money is going to be gone. And hopefully you did not give her a general power of attorney. That would mean you could be the proud owner of whatever she decides to buy in your name. If you do not have a seperate banking account (and I mean in another city) then start an allotment for Savings Bonds now. Buy as many as you can ...


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rm_eric71438 43 M
12  Articles
why cant i meet anyone on here   11/3/2003

i have talked with many amazing women on here and get along very well with all of them, i believe i am an attractive guy and they all told me so yet they never want to meet and i dont mean for sex only i am the type that likes to meet over a beer or a cup of coffee and get the know a personality face to face so i can look in eyes and feel a comfert... what is going on??


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First time Anal.   11/3/2003

I wanted to have anal for the first time. How do I go about getting prepared for it . Im really scared that it will hurt alot.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 1 Votes
nu2cpls 56,1966 C
2  Articles
How to respond?   11/2/2003

Once you've been contacted by an individual or a couple, what do you do next? I acknowledged receiving their e-mails, but what do you say...."I like you dick"??? I'm at a loss for words, what to ask, whats appropriate, what's the usual procedure??? Any ideas?? Thanks


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Advice on Butt Sex   11/2/2003

Anyone ever done it. How do you first get to do it with your partner. I always get the response. It hurts or it doesn't feel right. How do you work your way into that spot.


0 Comments, 46 Views, 83 Votes ,4.05 Score
rm_blusky4u2 63 M
1  Article
The Art of Clit Licking "Upside Down"   11/2/2003

This is a very interesting topic that I think most men dont know enough of due to reasons unknown? Is it one's own insecurities? Is it the lack of desire to care enough about ones partner? Lack of knowledge? Just not understanding a woman in general? These are just a few of the "many" excuses that a man can throw at a woman when it comes to the vagina and the clitoris as well as ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Which one should i pick?   11/2/2003

Heres my situation. I'm with a girl and have been for a year and a half. But i'm cheating on her with an ex. I'm completely in love with my g/f but the sex isnt there. My ex, i dont really like, but shes the best lay in the world. Im young (19) and would like to have alot of fun, but i do want my g/f in my life...Anyone have any suggestions??


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is my penis too small   10/31/2003

my penis only sticks out one and a half inches and only 4'' when it's hard do women like a short one like this


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Galiem 43 C
3  Articles
Female Orgasms - A Simple Guide   10/30/2003

Okay, so you want to satisfy your partner, and you're slightly insecure with your ability to do so. Well, if you weren't, or didn't think you had more to learn, you wouldn't be reading this. It's okay. Don't be embarassed, or feel belittled. The female body is exceedingly complex, and their sexual nuances are proportionally complex. Additionally, tastes and interests vary from person ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
RE: advice   10/30/2003

For one thing there are several reasons why people respond to the questions and articles here at Ebony Sex Hookups. One is to earn points so that they can enjoy a few perks another is to be genuinely helpful and add insight to people who ASK for it!! Unlike YOU, however, they dont pass judgement on others and or think that they are somehow "superior" !


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RE:Try anal   10/29/2003

to get stated try having a few drinks to relax. have your man first stat by licking and working up to a finger once your feel good with that then try letting the head of his penis push a little ways in and remember to go slow until you can take it all the way in


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advice   10/29/2003

I think people who give advice really need advice themselves.People who give advice are hiding the fact that inside them they are the ones who need advice from someone else.So people that give advice here is some advice for you.....stop giving advice and take some your self.


2 Comments, 11 Views, 52 Votes
habana1971 44 M
1  Article
Save The Email !   10/28/2003

When 'prospecting' for partners, save copies of the emails you send. The successful emails can then be pe-rused and re-used. <br> 'Up with STE! Down with STD!' 'keep email free'


0 Comments, 44 Views, 70 Votes ,8.41 Score