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rm_alrhem 40 M
1  Article
...   3/5/2004

Recent problems with regards to ... <br> Recently there are drugs being used in conjunction with rohypnol... a little sterilizer tablet used for horses and other large animals. The problem with this is that not only is there a , but also the sterilizer portion of the tablet not only stops the chances of pregnancy from the , but chances of ever becoming pregnant become incredibly ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 79 Votes ,9.15 Score
How safe is this really?   2/29/2004

I have found guys I want to meet and have sex with. The problem is that I don't want to go to their place, they could have the place booby traped or something and be an ax murderer. I'm not bringing them to my home so they can kill me there or find out where I live and stalk me. I can't afford a hotel that would be the safest thing to do. So I guess my question is how many of out there ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 70 Votes ,8.31 Score
Dating Sex Offender's   2/26/2004

Has anyone on here every met someone, fell in love and later finds out he is on the sex offender's list. <br> There are so really bad sickening perverts out in the world, some may even been on this site. I think there should be more restrictions for porn related sites, to keep from finding them. Should be a universal link/site to go to with all porn. Then parents could block ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 47 Votes ,7.74 Score
How do you know?   2/25/2004

How do you know the people your meeting are not some crazy nut case? Has anyone got any good Ideas about what questions to ask or things you should do?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 21 Votes ,5.72 Score
good to meet in a public place   2/3/2004

for those who like to meet... it's nice to meet a nice open place. <br> not just for the obvious reason of safety but also like if you're compabible, mannerism and attractiviness <br> heck I find just have fun


0 Comments, 5 Views, 80 Votes ,8.42 Score
rm_Cryderman 41 M
18  Articles
what to do   1/20/2004

i always try ot say nice things but for some reasont they alway come out bad and wrong, it is getting me in alot of trouble


0 Comments, 12 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
WALK THE WALK   1/19/2004

If you are on Ebony Sex Hookups to find something that interests you, then you must be willing to take that final step and meet with the person. No head games. We are all in the same boat searching.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 23 Votes ,6.98 Score
rm_hotlips710 53 C
5  Articles
re who are we meeting   1/14/2004

re who are we meeting? now that sometimes is the question, we went to meet someone who we met on Ebony Sex Hookups, we were looking forward to meeting them after all the chats and photo swapping we had done. the big day came and we set off to meet our friend at the train station both a little excited, when we arrived this complete stranger walked over to us and said hello he must have been at least ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 79 Votes ,9.01 Score
'STOP, THINK and NEVER LOOSE CONTROL   1/14/2004

This article is for other straight females, it is a must read. <br> My personal experience: <br> I met a man on Ebony Sex Hookups this last summer. One would think this "thing" we had going was the work of an angel. Everything wasnt perfect, but it was really good, I, like he, well lets just say, we were in heaven. We wrote eachother for months, then we spoke on the phone, then ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 99 Votes ,9.61 Score
three may be a crowd   1/8/2004

the problem i have is my girl is willing to have a threesome but wont engage in trying to get another girl involved so i'm stuck not knowing if shes really into it or not . this makes me feel like i'm doing something bad but it's understood between us why for kicks only . i dont want to leave her , or just screw someone down the street . so i guess i'm stuck till it falls in our laps.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 42 Votes ,7.01 Score
Self Defense   1/2/2004

When you feel the need to defend yourself, here's a sure-fire method: <br> poke them in the throat (windpipe)...that will drop anyone, regardless of their size


0 Comments, 2 Views, 23 Votes ,5.70 Score
touchme83 58 F
1  Article
Can Online Dating Be Safe?   12/30/2003

Has anyone met that person online who they thought would be the one for them. Let me say that meeting anyone new anywhere will always have risks. I have met a few people online myself. To me it's better then meeting them in person to an extent. The reason I say this is because you have the opportunity to feel them out. Even though you don't have them in front of you physically doesn't mean ...


1 Comments, 69 Views, 46 Votes ,8.11 Score
goldenthrob69 38 M
0  Articles
Internet Dating Filters   12/28/2003

INTERNET RELATIONSHIPS ADVICE Before the first date! <br> 1. Get an anonymous e-mail account. NEVER post your real name anywhere online. Remove it from chat programs, and any email accounts that you use for recreational correspondence. <br> 2. Take your time! Nothing will give you better prospective than time! Have your date's habits, mood or language ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 73 Votes ,7.87 Score
HIV and Porno   12/17/2003

Everyone out there who uses this site should be fully aware of how much HIV/AIDS is going to kick your ass. I am a professional 3D animator and I had the joy of modeling/animating the virus for broadcast television. Quite frankly, I was very impressed with the virus. It's a machine, and must be respected in nature...you wouldn't walk into a Lava Flow would you? The problem is that the ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 105 Votes ,9.00 Score
lynn299 56 F
3  Articles
me and my girlfriend   12/13/2003

i was about 23 yrs old and me and my girlfriend got kind of drunk. she started to kiss me and ii kissed her back and then she took off her shirt. me being a girl asked her what she was thinking.she said i have always wondered what you would taste like so i told her to find out.but i was just joking but she wasnt.she took my things slowly and was kissing me the whole time.she kissed my ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 45 Votes ,6.74 Score
Is it just me or what is up with...   12/8/2003

Every article I have read usually end up with the man cumming in the women. Besides diseases, doesn't anyone worry about pregnancy? I am fixed but I am still amazed...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 61 Votes ,7.67 Score
oral stimulation   12/4/2003

Ok everyone, hopefully someone knows the answer to this one, being that i'm new to all of this, I lack the proper factual info. Question: Can you contract a sexually transmitted disease from giving or recieving oral sex with a woman, if so, what exactally is the definations? THANKS!!


2 Comments, 55 Views, 124 Votes ,7.49 Score
1stTimeWithMan 54 M
3  Articles
Re: Always   11/28/2003

Just wanted to add that wearing 2 condoms is a very bad thing to do. It drastically raises the chances of breakage. Always wear one, but don't ever put 2 on at the same time.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 22 Votes ,6.61 Score
Why is everyone so damned scared?   11/24/2003

My god people! Learn how to size someone up prior to meeting in person. Look for signs of deceit, evil, bad intentions. I have rules and if they choose not to cooperate and do as I ask then game over! BEFORE I EVER MEET IN PERSON! Now if a psycho slips through the cracks , be prepared! Get over the damn little scarries and get aware and in tune with what the hell IS going on! If you have ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 81 Votes ,9.65 Score
tips   11/19/2003

If person is unknown meet in a public place, never in private. <br> Never do anything your not comfortable with. <br> Talk to this person as much as possible before agreeing on anything. <br> <br> Always be prepared incase your date forgets to pay the bill and you get stuck with it. <br> Going to a movie is a classic first date scenario.


0 Comments, 1 Views, 54 Votes ,5.67 Score
"no expectations" means EXPECTITANYWAYS   11/8/2003

Well, let me just start out by saying I have been on here almost 3 monts now and I have only met two men from here...both in which were very good looking and nice. But there was something about the one guy.....we talked for over two and a half weeks online, and he would beg me to meet him...well I told him to not "expect" anything and he told me he didn't, so I finally did! I thought he ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 96 Votes ,7.19 Score
Always   11/7/2003

The most important dating tip that I can think of is to always where a condom - always, sometimes 2 dependingon the "lady" you're with. Another saftey tip, it helps if you're both drunk. That way, niether can be blamed or scared of the other....make sense, I didn't think so. Just remember to always keep your gaurd up.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 52 Votes ,7.38 Score
rm_sexyhuge 47 M
4  Articles
Sexy Young Married Tenants   10/31/2003

The Tenants This is a completely true story that began about mid July 2003 it is now October 8, 2003. I am relatively well off financially and am now 57 years old although I really pass for 47 easily. The tenants in this story rented one of my rent houses in January of 2003. They are a married couple of a little over two and a half years. Jill is 25, 5’5, 138 pounds with beautiful ...


2 Comments, 354 Views, 31 Votes ,4.39 Score
OH REALLLLLLLLLY!!!   10/28/2003

Seems if Ebony Sex Hookups is sooooo concerned about the safety of others they would not allow the blocking of standard members to view the basic profiles of potentials!!!!! Replying 'blind' to others is bullshit! If we dont have a clue of who the hell they are or ANYTHING for that matter where is the safety there?????


0 Comments, 18 Views, 43 Votes ,8.60 Score
picking the right spot for the first meeting   10/15/2003

This is just a little advice for people like I was a few months ago, when you meet someone for the first time you need to do it in a public place. This is first and foremost to protect yourself from who knows what and also it is not as nerve racking to meet in public rather than in a private place, the first meeting should probably be for lunch, that way if things aren't going well you can ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 131 Votes ,8.42 Score
rm_sexyhuge 47 M
4  Articles
Another's Wife Fucking   10/15/2003

I have been on the internet for many years. Talking to people online in chat rooms, message boards and E-mails. I talked to single women and couples, meeting them for sex. One day I talked to a guy who had a fantasy of seeing his wife fuck another man but she was not to keen on the subject. We met in a bar and he asked me how can he get her interested into fucking another man. The first ...


0 Comments, 172 Views, 297 Votes ,8.14 Score
bobbywp123 58 M
1  Article
Gay is Gay   10/1/2003

I get very upset when i hear about a woman who contracted AIDS from her male lover whom she didn't know was bi/gay. Let's be serious folks, gay is gay. There is no in the middle. If you are gay/bi, be honest with your partners so they can decide if they want to take that chance. In this man's opinion, there is no such thing as a straight or bi male who likes other males. Your butt is ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 132 Votes ,0.96 Score
How to be safe if you need discreetion?   9/30/2003

I saw many articles about taking references, letting someone know where you are, etc. But what if you need discretion, like if you are married and don't want anyone to know what you are doing, so you try to find someone over the internet. How to be safe there?


0 Comments, 23 Views, 110 Votes ,2.33 Score
rm_lgliang 41 M
9  Articles
Be cautious on your first meet.   9/26/2003

... After you've spent months communicating with that 'perfect' guy on the other side of the internet cable, you decide to arrange for a first meet up, but are you sure you're gonna be safe? <br> ... A lot of times you hear in the news about date and such related crimes, but you can plan and prepare some preventive measures in case the person you want to meet is another media ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 86 Votes ,7.88 Score
Re: safety first   9/20/2003

Just wanted to add something. Always have a saftey person. Someone you can trust completely. They also come in handy as your albi person. lol Send any and pertinant e-mails to them for safe keeping. Always meet for the first time in a very public place. Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, just leave. This goes for the guys as well as the girls. I'm from a very small ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 96 Votes ,8.25 Score