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Politeness   9/20/2017

I always appreciate when someone says no thanks if I page them on IM. If someone pages me and I dont want to chat I always let them know instead of ignoring them.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
refused   8/23/2017

a horney girl needs me but I'm very busy these days , how can I gently refuse her ?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
ignorance   8/23/2017

she ignored me :\


1 Comments, 19 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
Just decent   8/16/2017

How many times have you messaged someone and gotten no reply? I always answer my messages even if it is to say "No Thanks" at least then the other person has an answer. It is just common decency.


2 Comments, 25 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
totalreelielitt 40 M
4  Articles
Choices that have very fine sinus congestions in the end of the wrong turn I made...   8/13/2017

Is it so very negligent to leave your pets all about and without proper behavior? Really I'd rather swim in the ocean and find gold perhaps at the bottom of the abyss than date a bismol. That way the never ending battle I had with Achilles and guess what. I offer his soul back up to Zues himself. The little pixie liked to pick the wrong fights and found out that I'm superman compared to his ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Whats your percentage of useless messages?   7/31/2017

I'd say 95% of the messages I get are either bots or people that havent even looked at my profile.

Everyone else in the same boat? Anyone out there getting good messages all the time?


3 Comments, 39 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
bigboystwo2 53 M
11  Articles
gotta be gentle   7/24/2017

some come ready to play.. so if you don't want to, ,, ,, be nice.


1 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
ebonylover2019 51 M
6  Articles
funny i would love how to learn to say no thanks!!   7/17/2017

saying no thanks must be a woman thing, cause as a guy, not sure I would turn down any woman who wanted to meet.

most women on Ebony Sex Hookups are very sexy, they may not have sexy hot bodies, but they do have sexy hot minds. If they don't I am not getting to the meeting part of chat!!

as long as women are hot any horny, and seem like they enjoy pleasing people sexually, I am all in!


0 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Lukin4allofU 59 M
13  Articles
Is it so difficult?   7/2/2017

Whenever I make contact to anyone, If I am not going to enjoy time with them... 1. I don't lead them on 2. I am always polite 3. If asked to get together, it's easy to refuse and let the (person or individual) know I will not be meeting them.

Sooo, why is it so difficult for other to do that? Many members I have found do not ever let you know, we are not a match!

Shameful!!!! ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Maks1960 63 M
3  Articles
why cant people   6/26/2017

Every time I try chatting most will not answer. If they are not interested why cant they say so.


10 Comments, 73 Views, 15 Votes ,1.75 Score
Respeitar o não!   6/24/2017

A mulher como todo homem sabe, é de fases uma hora está com o humor dos melhores outra hora está com o pior possível, ela pode dizer que está afim de transar e no mesmo instante dizer que perdeu a vontade. Muitas vezes isso é de deixar o cara puto, porém o que sempre prevalece é a vontade de ambas as partes no que em minha opinião é requisito fundamental para a relação ser prazerosa, ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
kcock192 42 M
3  Articles
Proper way to say thanks but no thanks   6/15/2017

Not sure what is the proper way when someone approaches you on the site to say thanks but no thanks. I think everyone can agree that there is a certain physical chemistry involved in wanting to pursue a sexual encounter. I am not a picky person nor do I think that I am shallow or wanting a certain type. I am attracted to all women of all color and size and shape. That being said I find it ...


3 Comments, 65 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
Is blocking okay?   6/4/2017

I've been interested in some members, then they constantly message and such to the point where I will block them to get some peace. If I decide to unblock them do you think it would lead to something or would they hold a grudge?


4 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
lickforher69 20 M
1  Article
no to a bad night   4/17/2017

when you are out partying trying to enjoy your night when all of a sudden you get a gut feeling knowing something isnt right with the girl thats trying to get with you fallow the gut on feelings that night i had that feeling then found out that girl that was trying to get with me got locked up for having a shit ton of drugs in her car


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
sexylund119 38 M
9  Articles
no thanks   4/1/2017

when u say o any one for some of work u r happy


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes
Rejection nicely   3/11/2017

Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type, I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...


4 Comments, 40 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Alovertolove8888 36 M
2  Articles
Have you?   3/1/2017

Have you ever showed up for a "meet and greet" that was suppose to lead to sex, but the person on the other end was not who/what they appeared to be online?

This happened to me and I could not figure out a way to say "no thanks, this isn't going any further than coffee" without making it very awkward....

Any advice?


3 Comments, 57 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
izzynshe 68 C
1  Article
Manners   1/23/2017

We recently became members to this site... We have gotten several flirts, emails, and our profile has been viewed by many. We have been busy checking out profiles that fit what we are looking for and I must say we enjoy and are having fun already.. However there are a couple of single men that have commented and sent us emails and we have found that even though we didnt request single men they ...


7 Comments, 142 Views, 16 Votes ,4.89 Score
msusoccer 43 M
1  Article
emailing   1/15/2017

Why does it seem like on this site women are significantly more interested in just ignoring emails rather than saying no thanks. I get the emails that are short, 3 or 4 words, but when a guy takes the time to compose a thoughtful email, shouldn't that at least deserve some kind of response? What happened to common decency?


10 Comments, 77 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
tght14u03 50 M
5  Articles
Meeting up   12/21/2016

I'm beginning to think everyone is pic collectors. No one wants to meet without pictures. Remember when we didn't have the internet and we met for drinks. I have never had a problem meeting in person and either you are into them and great or one of you is not into the other and gi your separate ways. We're all adults. Once someone has had their identity stolen, fake profiles made and see how hard ...


3 Comments, 53 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
KYrod1991 32 M
2  Articles
No means no   12/1/2016

No means no damnit 😉


9 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
Photo/Icon (optional)   11/21/2016

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2 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
ussion topics are for original mat   11/21/2016

ussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, please observe the HornyWife Terms of Use. If you see material that is inappropriate for HornyWife, or that may have been publish


1 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Is being crazy contagious? - There is always a price you must pay!   11/16/2016

While riding the train downtown last evening (yes we now have light rail trains in and around Los Angeles) to the Lakers / Brooklyn Nets game(at Staples Center) my phone blew up (figuratively not literally) with texts from not one but two former booty calls. What was strange is both of the booty calls have from time to time tried to reconnect with me a time or two in the past. I have ...


4 Comments, 144 Views, 27 Votes ,5.45 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it?   11/1/2016

SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it? A few days ago, at the Lakers home game / season opener, I ran in to a good friend and an acquaintance I've know since high school. It was nice to see them and talk to them at the game and catch up since we don't talk on a regular basis, except at a gathering, social event or party once or twice every year. They were both in ...


3 Comments, 92 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
Inheatat46 57 F
4  Articles
This Member "djhits20072 " Male 55yr Old Harassing Me   10/30/2016

This guy seemed nice in beginning conversation. We only conversated on the phone. After awhile, he began having notions that I would video us and put it on this site. If you go to his profile you will see that he is definitely not the type of male you guys would want to see in a video with me. Anyway, he kept talking about us being videoed. He began going over and over again about being videoed ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
SAY NO THANKS AND RUN WHEN...   10/15/2016

Hi my fellow Ebony Sex Hookups brother and sisters,

I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying to have fun and meet great people.

We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives. Be sure to keep ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 19 Votes ,7.08 Score
Saying No   10/3/2016

It seems allot of people like to say no and sometimes they shouldn.ty


1 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score