***UPDATE!! KEEPING THE ORIGINAL BUT UPDATING!! UPDATE!!*** SURPRISE!! WE'RE STILL HERE!! lol No...for real...hubby is opening up more w/"positive motivation". So, whereas, we are still working out some kinks, we are finding a best common ground. Need a stable & sturdy foundation in order for our growth to be more fulfilling. As of now, we are looking for females, couples that don't mind the guys just sitting back & watching, couples that like the girl on girl but the men stick to their woman, or a couple where the man likes watching his woman getting freaky with another couple. Maybe as we build that foundation and grow a bit more, we will be open to more...much more. ORIGINAL This isn't husband starting this account, just so we are all on the same page. In all honesty, I don't even know how to begin. I know he is into swinging, threesomes, and more...BUT he won't come out with it. He's in denial even with all the " accidental hints". I don't think he realizes I am more open then he thinks even after 12 years together. So since he started the process at some point but never finished, I'll start and finish it. Maybe if he can see I am willing, he'll open up and finally tell me what he wants. Regardless, I want to finish exploring w/another female and expand my horizons beyond. I just need someone to help us expand said horizons. For now, that is all I can say. If you want more info, don't hesitate to ask.

My Ideal Person As of now, we are looking for:
females, couples that don't mind the guys just sitting back & watching, couples that like the girl on girl but the men stick to their woman, or a couple where the man likes watching his woman getting freaky with another couple.

Maybe as we build that foundation and grow a bit more, we will be open to more...much more.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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