I'm free (today or any day you might suggest), - if - you want to get together and chat or do any kind of activity that you would like, or might - like to do. I'm 6' 2" and 235 lbs. Caucasian 1/8 American Indian, college grad non-smoker, clean shaved face, still have most of my hair on my head, wear glasses, blah, blah, blah, no tattoos, never been drunk, never beaten women, never been in prison or jail, never cheated when legally married, never taken illegal drugs, never lied - except when she asked me if I liked her new hair-do! :-)) LOL! Some women have compared me to Robert Redford in looks during his younger years, but I think those women were a little nuts - I'm not that good looking, especially now that I'm much older - age 55+. I'm a self-employed businessman (therefore I have a job), and I have lived in Fresno for a long long time - for 45+ years - what a sad waste - it has been, too! - number one or two in the nation as the car theft capital of the USA/world (depending on the year) & the 1st or 2nd worst air polluted city in the USA. (depending on the year) with poverty and school graduation rates reported to be worse than Appalachia on the east coast! Sigh! But, I'm willing to move, and most likely I'll not die here - so that's the bright side! Sigh! :-) Would you like to meet? ROFWL! LOL! In spite of it all, I'm STILL AN OPTIMISTIC businessman/investor!!! LOL! Thus, if you'd like to meet then you tell me the place, the date and the time and I'll be there! :-) I most likely won't meet all of your requirements, but I'm still willing to apply LOL! Is the job still open, or is it now taken??? :-) ;-)) If you are further interested seek me at my Y a h o o website under the name of: David_Wells_59 - in other uncoded words: Adult FriendFinder

My Ideal Person WHAT I WANT:
At the age of approx. 65, I dream of having a younger woman between the ages of 18 and 55 - but not likely, and to be able to love and adore her with her having no taboos or social "don't(s)" like a ring in her nose. etc.; and thus I seek to be involved in her life and care for her in every way, but not be a possessive freak, and feel like she's my property, both physically and emotionally. I similarly want to be the type of relationship a father would have with a daughter, only NOT have the social taboo of not being able to have sex with her, because of a blood relationship that socially bars fathers from having sex with their daughters. In other words, I want a younger wife, that might even be considered by some to be my daughetr, plus not have the limitations that all of that blood relationship imposes by her actually being a blood relative daughter. I would never fuck my daughter. In other words I want to have an intimacy of both a guiding loving father and a husband - all at the same time WITH the SAME woman - with NO SOCIAL restrictions or taboos. I seek to have the BEST OF BOTH WORLDS and the epitome of the freedom to love a young beautiful woman that is reasonably naive in a semi-childlike innocence and is a woman without guilt or shame or complications of any kind! Or, I'd be willing to marry a woman with daughters and sons.

My goal is an extremely tough mandate to fulfill in this day and age of harshness and the exploitation of sex in young women during their pre-teen
and teen years. By the time many of them get to be age 18 or 20 they've had sex so many times with so many different men, they have lost their glow and innocence and have become stone-faced and stone cold - women; - who are angry at men, bored with life and the lack the zest it can bring from being innocent and excited with discovering new things.

I crave for bonding of physical affection and touching and the intimacy of a loving BOND that can develop between two individuals of the opposite sex, yet still have the superiority over her that only fatherly wisdom that comes with age can bring and give to the relationship.

I'd like to know what is her actual education history and what her future education plans and general interests are in life, - so that the time spent together in bed and other places are more meaningful and bonding, because the brain is the largest sex organ humans have. Finding out those things about a woman is what I want - plus I love intense physical affection and naked touching and the physical and emotional closeness it can bring. Any woman who has ever birth a baby can NOT deny that feeling. However, I as a male, have no such natural abilities to be able to feel the closeness of recently birthed child's skin; and thus seek to imitate that as best as i can. I'll never forget the joy I felt holding my new born son against my bare hairy chest and bottle feeding him in his almost naked state, were it not for a skimpy diaper. Such feelings of closeness and bonding are seldom felt in an adult mans life, and a woman is one of the few places he can get it.

If the woman is a distant person who - doesn't like - to be touched, then don't approach me for intimate friendship, and expect me to satisfy that need in her to be distant and aloof. Because I will remain aloof and lifeless unless she wants to overcome her way of life, because most likely, will want to physically climb all over her, and hug her and cup her face with my hands and kiss her with passion most likely from the first time we meet. LOL! I'm a very physically oriented male and very wanting for physical love and affection. I may restrain myself in a gentleman's manner, but that doesn't quell the urge for physical affection.

I also want to know what is her weight, height and dress size are, and what are her dreams in life and --- is she open to going places (traveling) and seeing new or different things and what are her hobby interests and etc.? Age wise I'm (most likely) a lot older than she is, but perhaps I could fill in for her needs and meet her "needs" while she is hunting for "Mr. Right". In other words: I'm open to being on her second string team or "B" team! LOL! - but - I confess - I'm really looking for an emotionally intimate relationship, like a father would have with his daughter or his daughter's best friend - and sex is NOT the most important thing in the world to me - but emotional closeness and physical touch is what I crave the most and what is nearest and dearest and most important to me.

I like to run around the country-side working on my various business ventures and have fun in the process. It's nice to get out and meet female people of various backgrounds and interests AND get to know them while I'm running errands and going to various kinds of auction and estate sales and thrift and antique stores and etc. outings and things. If you are interested, you could ride along and we could chat on the way, or perhaps she will have errands you want to do and we could go do those things. However, I'm not one to enjoy sitting in a beauty shop or going clothes shopping for women! Ha! But I'm also lovable enough to CARE to do that for "her" and with her, for a few minutes, if it's just a short errand trip. It's kind of fun, to see how the other "half" lives! LOL!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I want a loving younger woman BUT over age 18 - that I'm greatly
attracted to and who would want me in her life, for the rest
of my lifetime and hers as well, and thus make me both her
friend and lover - even if she found another MALE mate her
own age later on. THUS, In my convalescing waning years
I desire more adult children other than the one and only
male child I now have and thus a prospective younger female
could be like an intimate loving caring foster child to
me and I her father/lover/boyfriend/husband or just a
good friend - whatever - she would choose and want --- me
to be in her life! I'm of the understanding that Polynesian
societies have such "big happy families" and no one thinks anything strange about it. Perhaps my understanding is incorrect,
and if so - I'm subject to correction and would welcome it.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A store dressing room, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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